Love Cares for Others

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Focus on Character Development

Supplies
  • Bible
Optional Supplies
  • Memory Verse Poster
  • The Action Bible, images of baby Moses
  • Recording of the memory verse song or rhythm
  • Student Pages
  • Crayons
Teacher Tip: If you were able to record the memory verse song or rhythm, listen to it before the lesson so you can guide the children through it again.

Teacher Devotion

I was hungry. And you gave me something to eat. I was thirsty. And you gave me something to drink. I was a stranger. And you invited me in. I needed clothes. And you gave them to me. I was sick. And you took care of me. I was in prison. And you came to visit me…. The King will reply, “What I’m about to tell you is true. Anything you did for one of the least important of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.”
Matthew 25:35–36, 40

Jesus invites us to help those who need it. This may be the person you see sleeping on the street corner each night, a neighbour who needs help with a task, or a child in your class. When we see others whose needs are not being met, it can be very easy to think that someone else can come along and help that person.

But what if God is presenting you with the opportunity to help? Think of someone in your community who you can help. It may be that this person is hungry, or she may need someone to talk to. Whatever the need may be, think of a way you can show compassion toward that person this week. When you help others, you are showing Jesus’ love for them and to them.

Family Connection

Encourage the families to talk about the things in their communities that may divide people. Ask them to work together to think of 1 way their love can bring others together.

Teacher Tip: If possible, email or text the Family Connection Card to the families of your students.

Lesson Time

1. Connecting:

Play a game to understand what it means to love all people.

Greet the children warmly as they arrive. Have them sit in a circle in the middle of the teaching space.

Teacher Tip: Whenever possible, start short conversations with the children in your class to find out more about their lives and interests. This will help them to feel cared about, and it will help you to better understand them. You can show love to them by using their names, remembering important details about their lives, and caring about the things that are important to them.

The last time we met, we learned about what it means to love others. When we love others, we want to be kind to them and we want what is best for them. We want them to have what they need and we want to help meet these needs.

In the Bible, Jesus tells us to love our neighbours.

Who are our neighbours?

Anyone can be a neighbour: friends, family members, people in the community, and people from outside the community.

In a moment, we will play a game. As we play this game, I want you to think about who your neighbours are. Who does God ask you to love? I need 2 volunteers to help with our game.

Choose 2 children to begin the game.

When I tell you to start, these 2 children will try to tag the rest of you. We will call these children “Neighbours.” When one of the Neighbours tags someone, the Neighbour must say the name of someone he can show love to. It can be the name of a person or a word that describes a group of people, such as “my friends.” Then the person who was tagged will become a Neighbour and will try to tag another person. We will continue playing for about 5 minutes.

If the children need help thinking of different groups or types of people they can love, you may suggest the following:

Teacher Tip: If these types of people are not common in your community, please change them to people the children would regularly interact with.
  • Parents
  • Neighbours
  • Teachers
  • Friends
  • People our friends do not like
  • People with disabilities
  • People who are older than we are
  • People who are unkind to us
  • People who live on the streets
  • People who come from different communities or countries

Allow the children to play for about 5 minutes. Then ask the children to stop where they are. Have them sit in their normal places for the next part of the lesson.

In this game, we thought of many people to love.

Who are some of the people you can love?

Allow 2–3 children to share their ideas. This is a time for the children to share their thoughts, so there are no wrong answers.

Everyone can be a neighbour. Today, you will learn more about how you can love all people.

2. Teaching:

Listen to a story about love and talk about ways to love all people (1 John 3:16–18; Exodus 2:1–10).

When you show love to all people, that includes everyone in your community and everyone outside of your community. You can show love in many ways. This includes having compassion for other people. When you have compassion, you care about someone who has needs that are not being met and you want to help that person.

Optional: If possible, share the images from The Action Bible.

Let’s listen to a true story from the Bible about the compassion shown by a young Egyptian woman toward an Israelite baby. During this time, the Israelites were slaves in Egypt. The king of Egypt—Pharaoh—had made a law that all Israelite baby boys would be killed at birth. It was during this time that an Israelite mother and father had a baby boy.

The mother and father hid their baby boy for 3 months! They kept him in their home as long as they could, and then they made a plan to continue to protect him. The mother made a special basket that could float in the water. She put her baby boy in the basket in the Nile River hoping someone would see him and rescue him.

If you think the mother showed love for the baby, hold up your hands and make a heart shape with them.

Show the children how to make a heart with their hands by curving both hands into a hook shape and putting both hands together. Pause to allow the children to respond.

How did the baby’s mother show love for her baby?

She kept him hidden; she placed him in a basket and put him in the river so he could be rescued.

The mother loved her baby, so she placed him in a basket and set him in the river to save his life. After she placed her baby in the river, Pharaoh’s daughter heard him crying and had compassion for him. She asked her servant to pull the basket out of the water. Listen to what happened next.

If possible, read this verse directly from your Bible.

When she opened it, Pharaoh’s daughter saw the baby. He was crying. She felt sorry for him. “This is one of the Hebrew babies,” she said.
Exodus 2:6

So, the daughter of the Pharaoh, the man who had ordered that no Israelite baby boys could live, saved an Israelite boy from the water! She then asked an Israelite mother to take care of the baby until he no longer needed to drink milk. Pharaoh’s daughter did not know it, but this woman was the baby’s mother!

Pharaoh’s daughter had compassion for the baby boy she pulled from the river. Remember, when you show compassion, you want to help someone by meeting the needs that he has.

How did Pharaoh’s daughter show compassion for the baby boy in the river?

Allow 2–3 children to respond.

Pharaoh’s daughter showed compassion by rescuing the baby from the river because he was helpless and needed care. She met his needs by asking a woman to feed and care for him.

Choosing to show compassion may have been difficult and even dangerous for Pharaoh’s daughter. That is because she was not supposed to allow the baby boy to live. Once he was a little older, the Pharaoh’s daughter raised the Israelite boy as her own son. The baby from the river was named Moses. He grew up to lead God’s people out of Egypt. He grew up to be someone very special!

The Bible tells us that we are supposed to show love and compassion to all people. Listen to these verses:

We know what love is because Jesus Christ gave his life for us. So we should give our lives for our brothers and sisters. Suppose someone sees a brother or sister in need and is able to help them. And suppose that person doesn’t take pity on these needy people. Then how can the love of God be in that person? Dear children, don’t just talk about love. Put your love into action. Then it will truly be love.
1 John 3:16–18

The Bible tells us that Jesus loves us. Because Jesus loves us so much that He gave us His life, we should also love others by helping them and giving them what we have. The best way for us to care for others is to love them. You can show compassion for other people, including those who are different from you and who have needs that have not been met. Here are some ideas to help you:

Teacher Tip: You may change any of the motions below to those that better fit your children.
  1. Pray for them.
    1. Hold your hands in a prayer position. Encourage the children to say, “Pray for them” as they do the prayer motion with you.
    2. When you pray for people who are different from you, you show your love and compassion for them and for their situations. This could be as simple as going home from the market and saying a prayer to ask God to provide for the needs of the people you saw.
  2. Offer to help someone.
    1. Hold both hands with palms facing up out in front of you at your waist. Encourage the children to say, “Offer to help someone” and do the motion with you.
    2. If it is safe for you to help someone, you may help that person do simple tasks she cannot do herself. For example, if someone cannot stand easily, you might bring her a long stick to help her stand. If you help an adult, just be sure you tell an adult you know so he can help you decide if it is safe for you to help.
  3. Listen to what others have to say.
    1. Place 1 hand near your ear as if you are trying to listen to someone. Encourage the children to say, “Listen to what others have to say” as they do the motion with you.
    2. Listening is an important part of relationships. When you listen to someone, you show that person you value what she has to say. You can listen to your friends, siblings, parents, and classmates or children in your neighbourhood who might need someone to talk to. Listening shows you care about what other people feel and need.

3. Responding

Do an activity to practice showing love and compassion for other people.

Now that we know why we should show love and compassion to all people, let’s think of some ways we can put our love into action.

Allow 4–5 children to respond to each of the questions below. You may want to share the suggested answers that the children do not mention.

What are some ways you can show love to people you know well?

Answers may include things such as: listen to them, show compassion toward them, pray for them, and help them.

What are some ways you can show love and compassion to people you do not know well?

Answers may include: say something kind to them, pray for them, and try to help them.

Let’s practice showing love and compassion to others. I will read a situation to you. You will use actions to show me how you would respond to one of the people.

Situation: When you are at the market with your mother, you see many different kinds of people. You see a boy who needs crutches to walk, a man who is begging, a girl who is stealing fruit, a woman who comes from another country and does not speak your language, a child who is struggling to carry something heavy, and many others. Show me with your actions what you can do to show love and compassion to one of these people.

Demonstrate how you would respond to one of the people. Then, read the situation again and allow the children to respond. They may respond at the same time or 1 at a time. It is okay if a child chooses the same response as another child. When the children have all responded, you may ask them to be seated.

Teacher Tip: If any of the children suggest responses that might put them in danger or be inappropriate, gently redirect them by suggesting a similar response that would be safe. For example, if a child says he would hug the man who is begging, suggest that he smile and say hello instead.

Optional: If you are using the Student Pages, give the children crayons and allow 2–3 minutes to do the activity.

When we show love and compassion to others, we honour God. This week’s memory verse reminds us how we can show love to others.

Memory Verse

If you are using the Memory Verse Poster, show it to the students.

Finally, I want all of you to agree with one another. Be understanding. Love one another. Be kind and tender. Be humble.
1 Peter 3:8

Review the song, rhythm, or chant you created to help the children remember the memory verse. If possible, encourage the children to make hearts with their hands throughout the song when they say ways a person can share love with others.

Review the memory verse song or chant 3 times. Then end class by saying this blessing, based on 1 John 3:16–18, over the children.

Blessing: May you know just how much Jesus loves you. May you share that love with others.

Lead the children in singing this quarter’s song, if possible.

Life on Life ©2020 David C Cook. Reproducible for home or classroom use only. All other uses require written permission from David C Cook [email protected]. All rights reserved.

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